Friday, February 21, 2025

The Gate to Beautiful





Witnessing lives being restored through the love and care of a safe, supportive community is truly one of the most beautiful aspects of the journey to recovery.


Acts 3 2-10

A Lame Man Healed

3 Now Peter and John went up together to the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour. 2 And a certain man lame from his mother’s womb was carried, whom they laid daily at the gate of the temple which is called Beautiful, to [a]ask alms from those who entered the temple; 3 who, seeing Peter and John about to go into the temple, asked for alms. 4 And fixing his eyes on him, with John, Peter said, “Look at us.” 5 So he gave them his attention, expecting to receive something from them. 6 Then Peter said, Silver and gold I do not have, but what I do have I give you: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise up and walk.” 7 And he took him by the right hand and lifted him up, and immediately his feet and ankle bones received strength. 8 So he, leaping up, stood and walked and entered the temple with them—walking, leaping, and praising God. 9 And all the people saw him walking and praising God. 10 Then they knew that it was he who sat begging alms at the Beautiful Gate of the temple; and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him.

Let’s explore the word lame. 

Strong's Lexicon

pisseach: Lame

Original Word: פִסֵּחַ
Part of Speech: Adjective
Transliteration: picceach
Pronunciation: pis-say'-akh
Phonetic Spelling: (pis-say'-akh)
Definition: Lame
Meaning: lame

Word Origin: From the root פָּסַח (pasach), meaning "to limp" or "to be lame."

Corresponding Greek / Hebrew Entries: - G5560 (chōlos): This Greek word is used in the New Testament to describe someone who is lame, similar to the Hebrew "pisseach." It appears in passages such as Matthew 11:5 and Acts 3:2.

Usage: The Hebrew word "pisseach" is used to describe someone who is physically lame or crippled, often referring to a person who has difficulty walking due to a physical impairment. It is used in the context of physical disability and is sometimes metaphorically applied to describe spiritual or moral deficiency.

Cultural and Historical Background: In ancient Israelite society, physical disabilities such as lameness were often seen as significant impediments to full participation in religious and social life. The Levitical laws, for instance, had specific regulations regarding those who were physically impaired, particularly concerning their roles in temple service (Leviticus 21:18). Despite these restrictions, the Hebrew Scriptures also emphasize God's compassion and care for the disabled, as seen in various prophetic and wisdom literature.

Born with a disability—could this be the result of generational trauma? At the Gate Beautiful, he sought alms, reaching out for help. He received attention from the disciples —not money, but genuine attention. "Rise up and walk," he was told, and then given a helping hand, lifted to his feet. It was at that moment he felt strength surge into his soul, empowering him to rise up.  He leaped up, full of life, praising the Almighty. Those around him witnessed the miraculous recovery. This is the power of love—love in action.


On my path to healing, it was the connections I made with others that empowered me to conquer the generational trauma I was born with.  These inherited wounds hindered me right from the starting gate of life. Among them were alcoholism, domestic abuse, sibling rivalry, sexual abuse, gluttony, a poverty mindset, jealousy, fear, bitterness, and broken family ties.

Trauma can express itself in many forms. The responses of fight, flight, fawn, and freeze are evident in many people's lives. The nervous system, intricate and complex, is the root cause of these responses. Consider the man at the Gate Beautiful—he seemed stuck in the freeze state. Yet, the attention of Peter and John, coupled with the power of divine love flowing through them, softened his heart and opened him to a new way of life.

The power of touch, attention, and connection heals the human being cut off from a healthy community. 

Are you, or someone you know, seeking a new path? A life empowered to overcome generational trauma? It IS possible! You might wonder how... I have a few tools that may help you thaw out and move forward!

John 10:10 NKJV

 The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.

Here are some resources that may assist you in your own journey to the heart of the Father!









Sunday, February 25, 2024

Staying in Your Own Lane

 Reading the latest Torah Portions, boundaries and consequences kept popping into my mind. Father blessed His children with the Law of Moses or Torah, the Father's Love Language.
 He set forth perimeters, guidelines, and instructions. Boundaries, if you will. 




If you are anything like me, you also struggle with boundaries. Understanding or knowing how to set a boundary can be confusing, especially if you have never had it role-modeled as a child. Without personal boundaries, I allowed others to step over me, step on me, and talk over me. 





Let's explore boundaries a bit more this week. Beginning with the question, what is a boundary? A simple definition of a boundary, according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary: 

Something that indicates or fixes a limit or extent. 

Those two trees mark the boundary of our property. 
The mountain range that forms the country's northern boundary synonyms bound, ceiling, limit, end, cap, line, extent, limitation, termination 


Staying in your own lane prevents confusion, chaos, and control. Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. 




A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership. —Drs. Cloud and Townsend.




                                               Even Yeshua practiced healthy self-care

 Did you know that Yeshua set boundaries to protect from burnout? So, if He needed to slip away for some "Me time," how much more do we need to slip away for quiet time with the Father, with ourselves? 




Busyness can be a difficult hurdle to overcome! People press us for many reasons; busy moms have difficulty carving out precious quiet moments to care for their own needs. He gets that. He had to say no to those clambering for His time and energy. He set an example. 

Matthew 14:22 And at once, he compelled his disciples to embark on the ship and to go before him to the other side while he sent the crowds away. 23And when he had sent the crowds away, he went up to a mountain alone to pray and when it was dark he was there alone.

Sometimes the answer is no; sometimes it is wait, and sometimes yes to you and no to me. It takes wisdom and practice to set healthy boundaries. 





Let's look further into this topic, and I will share links for you to explore this vital topic further.